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Validation : the new psychology of influence
Fleck, Caroline2025
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Place reservation for Validation : the new psychology of influenceUnlock the secret to true and lasting change. We all spend a huge amount of time trying to get people to listen to us, and despite our best efforts, we often fail. But what if the secret to influencing others was in first accepting them? This is known as validation: the communication that one is mindful, understands, and empathises with another person's experience, accepting it as valid. As both a means and an end, validation has profound effects -- from improving our relationships and de-escalating conflict, to increasing our ability to drive change and influence growth in others and ourselves. In this ground breaking book, Stanford University psychologist Caroline Fleck explains how and why validation is a catalyst for transformation, while taking us step-by-step through the eight skills we can use to communicate it. With practice, these skills become a way of life, helping us to focus on the possibilities that unfold when we see ourselves and others for who we really are.
Main title:
Validation : the new psychology of influence / by Caroline Fleck, PhD.
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Imprint:
London, UK : Orion Books, 2025.©2025
Collation:
306 pages ; 24 cm
Notes:
Includes bibliographical references and index.
Contents:
Part 1. What and whyValidationpsychology's best-kept secretA cure for allwhy you should drop everything and learn to validateWhat it means to be seenvalidation definedValidation and the art of sufferingone last reason to drop everything and learn to validatePart 2. HowThe validation laddereight steps to seeing and being seenAttendthe game all good listeners playCopyhow to connect with anyoneContextualizesolving for whyEqualizethe "anyone in your shoes would do the same" skillProposehow to read mindsTake actionwhen words aren't enoughEmotemy advice for Jimmy KimmelDisclosethe power of Me, TooPart 3. Where change comes inCh, ch, ch, changesbehavioral change strategiesRaising emotionally intelligence childrenvalidation and parentingThe universal love languagevalidation in intimate relationshipsValidate like a bossvalidation at workEverybody hurtsself-validationEpilogue.
ISBN:
9781398713161 (paperback)
Dewey class:
616.8914
Language:
English
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BRN:
532950
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| Location | Collection | Call number | Status/Desc |
|---|---|---|---|
| St Marys | Nonfiction | 616.8914 VAL | In-transit from St Marys to Penrith (Set: 07 Jul 2025) |
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